Friday, May 2, 2008

some general guidelines

When I was in high school, I'm proud to say I managed to earn a varsity letter as a tennis player, competing at first doubles for our team my senior year.
Perhaps the most notable thing about high school tennis, the first thing that most first-time observers point out, is that there are no officials at a match, not even typically at state championship matches. Players make their own calls, and must be trusted to be honest about them.
There are times, however, when officials might seem like a good idea. But I fully believe the players should be honest enough, and respectful enough of their opponents, to render them unnecessary.
Controversy brewed at the Farmington-Berlin girls match on Thursday, a critical one between probably the two best teams in the conference, and a growing rivalry. It is understandable that there would be some tension.
But there was what I felt in my experience to be an excessive amount of complaining from both sides about calls. Players and fans on both sides were quick to point out plays which they thought were called incorrectly against them by the other team, and even after some of the matches ended, the complaints carried on.
In particular, I overheard several parents pointing out to their children the calls that the other team had made wrong, and how good it was that they had played the match honestly.
My problem is this. If the complaints are coming from both sides, while both sides simultaneously are claiming honesty on their own part, something must be wrong. The fact is, making a split-second call with your naked eyes, while simultaneously trying to play the game, running around, preparing to hit the ball should it land in, is extremely difficult. Mistakes will be made and there will be times that a call is missed, or a player is positive they saw something that did not actually happen.
But the fact remains that there is a lot to be gained from the sportsmanlike approach required of players policing themselves.
My first bit of advice to players is this: When in doubt, always call the play in favor of your opponent. This was the way I made calls as a player, even when I suspected that the point should go my way.
Yes, there will be times when you make the wrong call and hurt yourself. But chances are, there will be other times in which you are sure you made the correct call in your own favor, when in fact you saw it wrong. Furthermore, your opponent may see you make a call in their favor that they believe was actually wrong. In that case, you will have gained their trust and respect as an honest player, and should you later make a call that goes against them, will be more inclined to believe you.
And fans, my message is this: understand that mistakes happen. Just because people make a bad call, even if from your vantage point it was an obviously wrong call, does not mean they are being dishonest or cheating. They simply might not have seen it from their point of view. Of course, there will always be some players who look to gain a small advantage from time to time by making a call in their own favor. But, I can assure you that the overwhelming majority of high school players take their dual role as match official very seriously, and would never intentionally make a bad call.
And coaches, your position as role model may be most important of all. Stress to your players the importance of making the right calls. Is winning worth so much that you would have them consider cheating to get there? Keep an eye out for bad calls, and be prepared to question a player should anything suspicious happen. You are the ones with the ability to teach.
But, please, don't let the values that can be learned from this tradition be lost by looking for outside line judges. It is far more important than the score.

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personality traits

While waiting for the Southington-Fermi volleyball match to start earlier this week, the photographer covering the event with me asked me what type of high schooler plays the sport, not typically one of the more glamorous ones. I was taken aback by the question somewhat, but there are certain types of kids who tend to play different sports, though no such simple categorizing could ever define everyone.
Another writer and I briefly explained to her that volleyball players often are more laid back, easy-going athletes, looking for a sport to have fun, be competitive and maybe get in shape.
Well, a few minutes later, a perfect example of the volleyball "sense of humor" appeared, something I've noticed before. Volleyball warmups take many minutes with each team getting its own time on the court without the other team there, in order to practice hitting. At Southington, when the hometown Knights are on the court, upbeat, energetic music plays over the PA system, designed to get the team pumped up.
But, when the other team warms up, the mood changes. Suddenly the mellow sounds of Enya, Sarah McLaughlin and others is pumped full volume through the gym, obviously intended to chill out the opposing team, but mostly having a somewhat comedic effect.
That's the volleyball personality. Competitive, but never so serious as to avoid a good joke.

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Sunday, April 27, 2008

the man behind the stories

The Herald said goodbye, and good luck this weekend to longtime staff member Brian Straight. Brian, most recently the sports editor, one of many positions he held with the paper, accepted a position with another publication, which I'm sure will be lucky to have him.
In his time at The Herald, Brian was often the one responsible for some of the paper's best efforts, including many of the more ambitious layouts, special sections and features in the sports section. Brian has a dedicated personality, and always strove to bring the readers information in new and unique ways, including encouraging this year's revamping of the seasonal All-Herald teams, the annual Thanksgiving football subsection and sizable season preview sections for CCSU sports and the Rock Cats.
Brian believes in the value of local sports, regardless of the level, and should some day find himself on the Little League field as a coach with his children. You may not know him, but if you are reading this, you have surely enjoyed his work.
Most important to me, Brian had full confidence in his staff to get the job done, and in what seems sadly rare these days stood up for that staff in critical situations. I appreciate having worked with him for three years, putting out what I believe to be one of the best local sports sections in the state.
Now if he could just get his bowling game up to par.
Good luck, Brian, and Keep on Truckin'.